Knot Magic Love Binding: Ethical Commitment Spell

Knot Magic Love Binding: Ethical Commitment Spell

Tying Love with Intention

Knot magic uses physical knots to bind intentions and energies. In love magic, knots can represent commitment, binding two people together, or sealing a promise.

Ethical Knot Binding

Important: Only use knot binding magic with consent. This is for committed couples who BOTH want to deepen their bond.

Handfasting Knot Ritual

You'll need: Red cord or ribbon (long enough to wrap around both wrists), two people who consent

The ritual (do together):

1. Stand facing each other (5 minutes)
Hold hands. Look into each other's eyes. Feel your love.

2. Wrap the cord (10 minutes)
Wrap the cord around both your wrists in a figure-eight pattern (infinity symbol). As you wrap, speak your commitments to each other.

3. Tie the knots (15 minutes)
Tie 3, 7, or 9 knots (sacred numbers). With each knot, speak a promise:
"I promise to love you."
"I promise to honor you."
"I promise to grow with you."
Continue until all knots are tied.

4. Seal the binding (5 minutes)
Say together: "By these knots, we are bound. In love, in commitment, in partnership. As we will it, so mote it be."

5. Release or keep (variable)
You can untie and keep the cord as a talisman, or stay bound for a set time (traditional handfasting is a year and a day).

Solo Knot Spell for Attracting Commitment

You'll need: Pink cord

Tie 9 knots in the cord. With each knot, state a quality you want in a committed partner. Keep the knotted cord on your altar. When you meet someone, untie one knot for each quality they embody. When all knots are untied, you've found your match.

Your Knot Magic Practice

Knots are powerful because they're physical representations of energetic bonds. What you tie in the physical, you tie in the energetic. Use this power wisely and ethically.

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