Full Moon in Leo: Releasing Ego & Need for Validation (January/February)

Understanding Full Moon in Leo Energy

The full moon in Leo illuminates the shadow side of the king/queen—ego, pride, the desperate need for attention and validation, and the fear of being ordinary. While Leo energy at its best creates authentic confidence and generous leadership, at its worst it creates narcissism and approval addiction.

Occurring between January 20 and February 18 (opposite the Aquarius sun), this full moon asks: "Are you seeking validation from others or from within? Is your confidence real or is it a mask? Are you leading from ego or from heart? Are you shining your light or demanding the spotlight?"

This is the time to release ego, let go of the need for external validation, and discover true self-worth that doesn't depend on applause.

When Does Full Moon in Leo Occur?

2024-2026 Full Moon in Leo Dates:

• February 12, 2025
• February 1, 2026
• January 21, 2027

What to Release During Full Moon in Leo

Leo Shadow Traits to Let Go:

Ego & Pride:

• Needing to be the center of attention always
• Pride that prevents apologies or admitting mistakes
• Ego-driven decisions
• Arrogance and superiority complex
• Inability to share the spotlight

Need for Validation & Approval:

• Addiction to likes, comments, and social media validation
• Doing things for recognition rather than joy
• Needing constant praise and compliments
• Feeling worthless without external validation
• Performing instead of being authentic

Attention-Seeking Behavior:

• Drama creation to get noticed
• Exaggerating stories or accomplishments
• Jealousy when others get attention
• Competing for attention
• Feeling invisible if not praised

Fear of Being Ordinary:

• Needing to be special or unique at all costs
• Looking down on "ordinary" people or activities
• Exhaustion from always performing
• Fear of not being enough
• Inability to be humble

Complete Full Moon in Leo Release Ritual

What You'll Need:

Crystals: Citrine, sunstone, tiger's eye, rose quartz, clear quartz

Candles: Gold candle (to honor the light), white candle (to release ego)

Tools: Mirror, crown or tiara, journal, phone/social media apps

Step-by-Step Ritual:

Step 1: The Ego Examination (15 minutes)

Get brutally honest with yourself.

1. Journal on these questions:

• Where do I seek validation from others instead of myself?
• What do I do for recognition vs. genuine joy?
• Where does my ego control my decisions?
• When do I need to be the center of attention?
• What am I afraid will happen if I'm not special?
• Where is my pride preventing growth or connection?

2. Be HONEST. This is shadow work.

Step 2: The Social Media Detox (10 minutes)

Leo's modern addiction: validation through likes.

1. Check your phone screen time—how much is social media?
2. Notice how you FEEL when you post vs. when you don't get engagement
3. Commit to a social media fast for 48-72 hours
4. Delete apps temporarily or turn off notifications
5. Notice the discomfort—that's your validation addiction
6. Say: "My worth is not determined by likes, followers, or comments"

Step 3: The Crown Removal Ceremony (10 minutes)

Symbolically release the need to be royalty.

1. If you have a crown or tiara, wear it
2. If not, visualize one on your head
3. Stand and feel the weight of always needing to be special
4. Feel the exhaustion of performing
5. Say: "I release the need to be special. I release the need to be seen. I release the burden of the crown."
6. Remove the crown and set it down
7. Say: "I am enough without the crown. I am worthy without the spotlight."
8. Notice how it feels to just BE, not PERFORM

Step 4: The Mirror Work Release (15 minutes)

Leo loves mirrors—time to use them for truth.

1. Sit in front of a mirror
2. Look yourself in the eyes
3. Say aloud:

• "I release the need for your approval" (to everyone who's ever validated you)
• "I release the need to be the best"
• "I release the need to be special"
• "I release my ego"
• "I release my pride"

4. Then say: "I am enough exactly as I am. My worth comes from within. I don't need to prove anything."
5. Cover the mirror or turn it away—practice not looking at yourself for 24 hours

Step 5: The Humility Practice (15 minutes)

Leo needs to learn HUMILITY.

1. Write down accomplishments you're proud of
2. Then write: "And I am no better or worse than anyone else"
3. Practice saying: "I don't know" or "I was wrong" or "I'm sorry"
4. Identify someone you've been competing with—send them genuine praise
5. Do something kind anonymously (no credit, no recognition)
6. Notice how it feels to give without getting

Step 6: The Authentic Self-Worth Ritual (15 minutes)

Replace external validation with internal worth.

1. Hold your rose quartz at your heart
2. Close your eyes and ask: "Who am I when no one is watching? What do I love when no one will praise me for it?"
3. Write down things you love about yourself that have NOTHING to do with achievement or recognition:

• Not "I'm successful" but "I'm kind"
• Not "I'm talented" but "I'm curious"
• Not "I'm special" but "I'm human"

4. Read this list daily—this is your REAL worth

Step 7: The Generosity Without Recognition Practice (10 minutes)

Leo's highest expression: generous leadership.

1. Commit to acts of generosity where NO ONE knows it was you:

• Leave money for someone to find
• Pay for someone's coffee anonymously
• Help someone without telling anyone
• Give without expecting thanks

2. Notice the urge to tell people—that's ego
3. Practice giving from the heart, not for applause

Step 8: Close the Ritual (5 minutes)

Place your hand on your heart and say:

"I release my ego and embrace humility. I release the need for validation and embrace self-worth. I release pride and embrace authenticity. I release the need to be special and embrace being human. I am enough. I am worthy. I am loved—by myself. And so it is."

Post-Ritual Practice: The 30-Day Validation Detox

For the next lunar cycle:

• No posting for validation: Only share what brings YOU joy, not what gets likes
• Practice anonymity: Do good things without telling anyone
• Limit mirror time: Check appearance once, then move on
• Celebrate others: Genuinely praise people without jealousy
• Practice humility: Say "I don't know" or "I was wrong" weekly
• Internal validation: Ask yourself "Am I proud of this?" not "Will others be impressed?"

Leo Full Moon Affirmations

• "I am enough without external validation"
• "My worth comes from within, not from applause"
• "I release my ego and embrace authenticity"
• "I am humble and confident"
• "I give generously without needing recognition"
• "I am comfortable being ordinary"
• "I celebrate others without jealousy"
• "I am worthy of love—especially my own"
• "I lead from heart, not ego"
• "I am human, and that is enough"

Signs Your Ritual Worked

• Less time on social media, less checking for validation
• Comfortable doing things without recognition
• Able to celebrate others genuinely
• Less need to be the center of attention
• Comfortable admitting mistakes or saying "I don't know"
• Feeling worthy without external proof
• Less comparison and competition
• More authentic, less performing
• Comfortable with being "ordinary"
• Leading from service, not ego

Final Thoughts: True Royalty

The full moon in Leo teaches us that true confidence doesn't need validation. True leadership doesn't need applause. True royalty doesn't need a crown.

You are not your achievements. You are not your likes. You are not your recognition. You are not special—and that's what makes you beautiful.

The most powerful thing you can do is be yourself without needing anyone to notice. The most royal thing you can do is serve without needing credit.

Take off the crown. Step out of the spotlight. Be ordinary. Be humble. Be REAL.

That's where true power lives.

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