Simple Love Spell: Pink Candle Magic for Attracting Romance

BY NICOLE LAU

This is the simplest, most accessible love spell for beginners. You don't need rare ingredients, perfect timing, or years of experience. You need a pink candle, a clear intention, and an open heart.

This spell is ethical—it doesn't target a specific person or manipulate anyone's free will. It simply opens you to love and calls in a partner who is aligned, available, and genuinely interested in you.

This is your complete guide to pink candle love magic.

What You Need

• 1 pink candle (any size—chime, taper, or pillar)
• Matches or lighter
• Paper and pen (pink or red ink if possible)
• Rose quartz (optional but recommended)
• Rose petals or rose oil (optional)
• Fireproof surface

Why Pink Candles Work for Love

Pink = romantic love, affection, tenderness (Red is passion/lust, pink is softer romantic love)

Fire = transformation and manifestation The flame transforms your intention into energy

Candle magic is simple and effective Perfect for beginners

Timing Your Spell

Best times:

• Friday (Venus day—love, beauty, attraction)
• New Moon (new beginnings in love)
• Waxing Moon (growing love energy)
• Venus hour (use planetary hours calculator)

You can do this spell anytime, but these times amplify the energy.

The Simple Love Spell (Step-by-Step)

1. Prepare your space (5 min)

Cleanse your space with smoke, sound, or intention. Create a calm, sacred atmosphere. This is important work—treat it with reverence.

2. Get clear on your intention (10 min)

What kind of love are you calling in? Be specific about qualities, not a specific person.

Write down the qualities you want in a partner:

• Kind, emotionally available, funny, shares my values, physically attracted to me, ready for commitment, etc.

End with: "This or someone better, for my highest good."

3. Prepare the candle (5 min)

If using rose oil, anoint the candle from bottom to top (drawing love toward you). As you do, visualize yourself in a loving relationship.

If using rose petals, place them around the candle base.

If using rose quartz, place it near the candle.

4. Light the candle (2 min)

As you light it, say:

"I light this candle to call in love. I am open to receive a partner who is perfect for me. Someone who chooses me freely, who loves me authentically, who is aligned with my highest good. This or someone better. So it is."

5. Read your intention aloud (3 min)

Read your list of qualities. Visualize this person (not their face—their energy, how they make you feel). Make it vivid and real.

6. Sit with the candle (10-15 min)

Watch the flame. Stay present. Feel the love you're calling in as if it's already here. Let yourself feel excited, grateful, open.

7. Release and trust (2 min)

When ready, say:

"I release this intention to the universe. I trust that love is coming to me. I am ready to receive. Thank you."

Let the candle burn completely if it's small (chime candle). If it's larger, let it burn for at least 30 minutes, then snuff it out (don't blow—blowing disperses energy). Relight daily until it's gone.

8. Dispose of remains

Once fully burned, dispose of wax remains. Bury in your yard or throw away. Keep your written intention on your altar or under your pillow.

What to Do After the Spell

Take action: Magic without action is fantasy. Put yourself out there—dating apps, social events, say yes to invitations.

Stay open: Love might not come how you expect. Stay alert to opportunities.

Practice self-love: Continue working on yourself. The spell opens the door, but you must be ready to walk through it.

Be patient: Manifestation takes time. Trust the process.

Variations

For self-love: Use the same spell but focus on loving yourself. "I call in deep self-love and acceptance."

For deepening existing love: Do this with your partner (with their consent). Both light candles together.

For healing heartbreak: Use a white candle instead. "I release past pain and open my heart to new love."

The Deeper Truth

The candle doesn't create love—it focuses your intention and shifts your energy to the frequency of love. When you vibrate at love, you attract it.

Do the spell. Take action. Stay open. Trust.

Love is coming.

This completes the Basics (1-5). Next: Dating Era begins with Dating App Magic.