Sixes in Tarot: Harmony, Communication & Balance

BY NICOLE LAU

After the chaos of the Fives comes the number six—the moment when harmony is restored, when balance returns, when communication flows again. The Sixes represent resolution, equilibrium, and the peace that comes after struggle. When a Six appears in your reading, something is being balanced, harmonized, or brought into right relationship.

In this guide, we'll explore all four Sixes together, understanding how harmony and balance manifest through Fire, Water, Air, and Earth. Each Six shows a different kind of resolution, a different way that peace is restored after conflict.

The Essence of Sixes: Harmony Restored

All Sixes share common qualities:

• Harmony - Balance and peace after the chaos of the Fives
• Communication - Exchange, flow, and connection between people or forces
• Balance - Equilibrium found, fairness established
• Resolution - Conflicts resolved, problems solved
• Movement forward - Transition from difficulty to ease

The Sixes are generally positive cards—they represent the relief and restoration that comes after challenge. But each Six achieves harmony in its own unique way.

Six of Wands: The Victory of Recognition

Element: Fire
Energy: Victory, recognition, success
The Harmony: Public acknowledgment and triumph

What's Happening:

The Six of Wands shows a figure on horseback, holding a wand with a victory wreath, surrounded by supporters. This is Fire as triumph—the conflict of the Five of Wands has been won, and now you're being celebrated.

The Six of Wands represents:

• Victory and success
• Public recognition and acclaim
• Confidence and pride
• Leadership and being followed
• Achievement acknowledged by others

The Harmony Achieved:

Fire finds harmony through victory and recognition. The competitive struggle of the Five becomes the triumphant success of the Six. You've won, and others acknowledge it.

The Message:

Celebrate your success. Accept recognition. You've earned this victory. But remember: stay humble. Today's victor can be tomorrow's challenger.

Six of Cups: The Nostalgia of Innocence

Element: Water
Energy: Nostalgia, innocence, reunion
The Harmony: Emotional healing through memory or reunion

What's Happening:

The Six of Cups shows two children exchanging cups filled with flowers, often in a garden or village setting. This is Water as nostalgia—the grief of the Five of Cups is soothed by sweet memories, childhood innocence, or reunion with the past.

The Six of Cups represents:

• Nostalgia and sweet memories
• Childhood innocence and joy
• Reunion with old friends or past loves
• Gifts given or received
• Healing through remembering happier times

The Harmony Achieved:

Water finds harmony through nostalgia and innocence. The loss of the Five is balanced by remembering what was good, by reconnecting with simpler times, by the sweetness of memory.

The Message:

Honor the past. Cherish memories. Reconnect with innocence. But don't live in the past—use it to heal, then move forward.

Six of Swords: The Transition to Calmer Waters

Element: Air
Energy: Transition, moving on, mental peace
The Harmony: Leaving conflict behind for calmer shores

What's Happening:

The Six of Swords shows a figure in a boat being ferried across water, six swords standing upright in the boat. This is Air as transition—the conflict of the Five of Swords is being left behind as you move toward calmer, more peaceful mental space.

The Six of Swords represents:

• Transition and moving on
• Leaving difficulty behind
• Mental peace after turmoil
• Travel or relocation
• Guided passage to better circumstances

The Harmony Achieved:

Air finds harmony through transition and movement. The battle of the Five is resolved not by winning but by leaving—by choosing to move toward peace rather than continuing to fight.

The Message:

Move on. Leave the conflict behind. Calmer waters await. You don't have to stay in the battle—you can choose peace.

Six of Pentacles: The Generosity of Fair Exchange

Element: Earth
Energy: Generosity, charity, fair exchange
The Harmony: Resources flowing between those who have and those who need

What's Happening:

The Six of Pentacles shows a wealthy figure giving coins to two beggars, holding scales in the other hand. This is Earth as generosity—the hardship of the Five of Pentacles is relieved by charity, by fair exchange, by resources flowing from abundance to need.

The Six of Pentacles represents:

• Generosity and charity
• Giving or receiving help
• Fair exchange and balance
• Resources flowing appropriately
• Being in a position to help or needing to receive help

The Harmony Achieved:

Earth finds harmony through generosity and fair exchange. The scarcity of the Five is balanced by the flow of resources, by giving and receiving, by the understanding that abundance is meant to circulate.

The Message:

Give generously if you have. Receive graciously if you need. Resources are meant to flow. Fairness and balance create harmony.

Comparing the Sixes: How Is Harmony Restored?

When a Six appears, ask yourself:

Is this about victory and recognition? → Six of Wands
Is this about nostalgia and healing memories? → Six of Cups
Is this about transition and moving on? → Six of Swords
Is this about generosity and fair exchange? → Six of Pentacles

Each Six restores harmony in its own way, appropriate to its element.

The Gift of the Sixes: Relief After Struggle

The Sixes are relief cards. After the difficulty of the Fives, the Sixes say: it's okay now. Balance is restored. Harmony returns. Peace is possible.

What the Sixes offer:

• Resolution after conflict
• Balance after chaos
• Peace after struggle
• Flow after blockage
• Hope after difficulty

The Shadow of the Sixes

Even positive cards have shadows:

Six of Wands shadow: Arrogance, ego inflation, needing constant validation

Six of Cups shadow: Living in the past, refusing to grow up, nostalgia that prevents present engagement

Six of Swords shadow: Running away rather than resolving, avoiding necessary confrontation

Six of Pentacles shadow: Using charity to control, creating dependency, unequal power dynamics

Multiple Sixes in a Reading

Two Sixes: Harmony in multiple areas. Balance is being restored across different aspects of life.

Three Sixes: Significant period of peace and resolution. After struggle, things are settling into harmony.

Four Sixes: Complete harmony and balance. Everything is flowing, resolved, at peace. Enjoy this—it won't last forever.

Sixes in Different Positions

Past Position: Harmony that was achieved. The resolution has already happened.

Present Position: You're currently experiencing this harmony. Peace is here now.

Future Position: Resolution is coming. After current difficulties, harmony will be restored.

Advice Position: Seek harmony. Create balance. Move toward peace. Give or receive generously.

When Sixes Appear Reversed

Reversed Sixes indicate:

• Blocked harmony - Resolution isn't happening, balance can't be found
• False peace - Superficial harmony that doesn't address underlying issues
• Inability to move on - Stuck in conflict, can't transition to peace
• Imbalanced exchange - Giving too much or receiving too little
• Pride preventing resolution - Ego blocking the path to harmony

Working with Six Energy

To make the most of Sixes when they appear:

1. Recognize the harmony - What's being balanced? What's resolved?

2. Appreciate the peace - Don't take this harmony for granted. Enjoy it.

3. Maintain the balance - Harmony requires ongoing attention and care.

4. Give and receive - The Sixes are about exchange. Be willing to do both.

5. Prepare for the next phase - After Six comes Seven. Use this peaceful time to prepare.

The Spiritual Meaning of Sixes

In numerology and sacred geometry, six represents harmony, balance, and the union of opposites. It's the number of the hexagram (six-pointed star), which symbolizes the integration of above and below, spirit and matter, masculine and feminine.

The Sixes in tarot embody this energy—they're about finding balance, creating harmony, and bringing opposing forces into right relationship. They remind us that after every struggle comes resolution, that peace is always possible, that harmony can be restored.

The question the Sixes ask is: can you accept peace? Can you allow harmony? Can you receive what's being offered?

Conclusion: The Sacred Balance

Sixes are about the relief and restoration that comes after difficulty. Whether it's the victorious recognition of Wands, the nostalgic healing of Cups, the peaceful transition of Swords, or the generous exchange of Pentacles—six represents harmony restored, balance achieved, peace found.

The Sixes teach us that struggle is not permanent, that after every Five comes a Six, that harmony is always possible if we're willing to create it. They remind us that peace is not passive—it's actively created through victory, memory, transition, or generosity.

The question is: will you accept the harmony being offered? Will you create the balance needed? Will you allow peace to return?

The storm has passed. Calm waters await. Will you sail them?