Therapy + Tarot: Using Divination to Support Professional Treatment

BY NICOLE LAU

For years, therapy and tarot existed in separate worlds—one clinical and evidence-based, the other mystical and intuitive. But a growing number of people are discovering that these practices aren't mutually exclusive. In fact, when used together mindfully, tarot can deepen therapeutic work, accelerate insight, and provide a symbolic language for processing what talk therapy alone can't reach.

This article explores how to integrate tarot with professional mental health treatment, what to share (and not share) with your therapist, how tarot can support specific therapeutic modalities, and the ethical boundaries that keep this integration healthy rather than harmful.

Why Tarot and Therapy Work Well Together

Complementary Strengths

What therapy does best:

• Provides professional diagnosis and treatment planning
• Offers evidence-based interventions (CBT, DBT, EMDR, etc.)
• Creates safe container for processing trauma
• Teaches coping skills and emotional regulation
• Addresses thought patterns and behavioral change

What tarot does best:

• Accesses subconscious material quickly
• Bypasses mental defenses through symbolic language
• Provides framework for self-reflection between sessions
• Externalizes internal conflicts for easier examination
• Offers archetypal perspective on personal struggles

Together, they create a complete system: therapy provides the clinical structure and professional expertise; tarot provides the intuitive depth and symbolic access to the unconscious.

The Symbolic Language Bridge

Sometimes you can't articulate what you're feeling in words. But you can point to The Tower card and say, "This. This is what's happening inside me." Tarot gives you a visual, symbolic vocabulary for experiences that resist linear language.

Many therapists—especially Jungian, transpersonal, or holistic practitioners—understand archetypal language and can work with tarot insights even if they don't read cards themselves.

How to Use Tarot to Support Your Therapy

1. Pre-Session Preparation

Pull cards before therapy to identify what needs attention:

Simple 3-card spread:

1. What do I need to discuss today?
2. What am I avoiding?
3. What insight is trying to emerge?

Bring your reading notes to session. This helps you arrive focused and ready to dive deep rather than spending half the session figuring out what to talk about.

2. Processing Between Sessions

Therapy is once a week (or less). Tarot can provide daily check-ins:

• Daily card pull: "What do I need to know today?"
• Trigger processing: When something activates you, pull cards to understand the mechanism
• Homework support: Use tarot to explore therapeutic assignments (shadow work, inner child healing, etc.)

Journal your readings and bring insights to next session.

3. Exploring Therapeutic Themes

When your therapist identifies a pattern or theme, use tarot to explore it deeper:

Example: Therapist says you have codependency patterns

Tarot spread:

1. How do I lose myself in relationships?
2. What need am I trying to meet through others?
3. What would healthy boundaries look like?
4. First step toward autonomy?

Bring this exploration to therapy for professional guidance on implementation.

4. Decision-Making Support

When facing major decisions discussed in therapy (leaving relationship, changing careers, setting boundaries), tarot can clarify options:

• Not to predict the future
• But to explore your internal landscape around each choice
• To identify fears, hopes, and unconscious motivations

Share your reading with your therapist to process the insights together.

5. Tracking Progress

Monthly tarot check-ins can show therapeutic progress:

• Same spread each month (e.g., "Where am I in my healing?")
• Track which cards appear repeatedly (persistent themes)
• Notice when difficult cards stop appearing (integration)
• Celebrate when empowering cards emerge (growth)

Tarot for Specific Therapeutic Modalities

Tarot + CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy)

CBT focuses on thought patterns and behavioral change. Use tarot to:

• Identify cognitive distortions (The Moon = catastrophizing, The Devil = all-or-nothing thinking)
• Explore alternative perspectives (pull card for "different way to see this situation")
• Track behavioral experiments (pull card before trying new behavior for insight)

Tarot + DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy)

DBT teaches emotional regulation and distress tolerance. Use tarot to:

• Identify which emotion regulation skill to practice (cards suggest approach)
• Explore "wise mind" vs. "emotional mind" (pull cards for each perspective)
• Process interpersonal effectiveness challenges

Tarot + Psychodynamic Therapy

Psychodynamic work explores unconscious patterns and past influences. Use tarot to:

• Access unconscious material (cards reveal what's hidden)
• Explore family dynamics (pull card for each family member's influence)
• Identify defense mechanisms (The Hermit = withdrawal, The Chariot = control, etc.)

Tarot + EMDR (Trauma Therapy)

EMDR processes traumatic memories. Use tarot to:

• Identify which memory needs processing (pull cards to see what's surfacing)
• Prepare for sessions (cards show what resources you need)
• Integrate after sessions (cards help make meaning of processed material)

Important: Don't use tarot to bypass trauma processing. Let EMDR do its work; use tarot for preparation and integration only.

Tarot + IFS (Internal Family Systems)

IFS works with different parts of self. Tarot is perfect for this:

• Pull card for each part (the protector, the exile, the manager)
• Use cards to dialogue between parts
• Identify which part is activated in current situation
• Find the Self energy (pull card for "my centered Self")

What to Share with Your Therapist

DO Share:

• That you use tarot for self-reflection
• Insights from readings that relate to therapeutic themes
• Patterns you've noticed through card tracking
• Questions that arose during readings
• How tarot is supporting (or complicating) your healing

DON'T Share (unless therapist is open):

• Lengthy card-by-card interpretations (they're not tarot readers)
• Predictions about the future
• Spiritual beliefs if therapist is dismissive
• Tarot as replacement for therapeutic work

How to Introduce It:

"I've been using tarot for self-reflection between sessions. It's been helpful for identifying patterns and preparing for our work together. Would you be open to me sharing insights that come up?"

Most therapists will be curious and supportive, especially if you frame it as a self-awareness tool rather than fortune-telling.

Finding a Tarot-Friendly Therapist

If your current therapist is dismissive of spiritual practices, consider finding one who's more aligned:

Look for therapists who identify as:

• Jungian or depth psychology
• Transpersonal psychology
• Holistic or integrative
• Spiritual but not religious (SBNR)
• Feminist or liberation psychology
• Somatic or body-based

Questions to ask in consultation:

• "Are you open to clients using spiritual practices like tarot for self-reflection?"
• "How do you work with clients who have spiritual or mystical experiences?"
• "Do you incorporate any non-traditional modalities?"

Ethical Boundaries: When Tarot Becomes Problematic

Red Flags:

• Using tarot to avoid therapy: "The cards said I'm fine, so I don't need to process this"
• Tarot as authority over therapist: "The cards said to do X, so I'm ignoring your clinical recommendation"
• Obsessive reading: Pulling cards constantly, unable to make decisions without them
• Spiritual bypassing: Using tarot to avoid difficult therapeutic work
• Replacing medication: "The cards said I don't need antidepressants"

Healthy Integration:

• Tarot supports therapy; doesn't replace it
• You can hold both tarot insights AND therapist's expertise
• Tarot is one tool among many, not the only authority
• You discuss tarot insights with therapist for professional perspective
• You follow clinical recommendations even when cards suggest otherwise

Crystals to Enhance Therapy + Tarot Integration

• Clear quartz: Clarity, amplifies both therapeutic and intuitive insights
• Amethyst: Spiritual wisdom, transmutes pain into understanding
• Fluorite: Mental clarity, discernment, integrates multiple perspectives
• Lepidolite: Emotional balance during deep work
• Labradorite: Protects during vulnerable therapeutic exploration
• Smoky quartz: Grounds insights into practical action

Use: Hold during tarot readings about therapy, place on therapy journal, carry to sessions for grounding.

Sample Integrated Practice

Weekly rhythm:

Monday (Pre-therapy):

• Pull 3-card spread: What needs attention this week?
• Journal insights
• Identify what to discuss in Thursday's session

Thursday (Therapy day):

• Bring tarot insights to session
• Process with therapist
• Receive clinical guidance and homework

Friday-Wednesday (Between sessions):

• Daily card pull for self-check-in
• Use tarot to explore therapeutic homework
• Journal integration of therapy insights

Monthly:

• Longer tarot spread reviewing therapeutic progress
• Discuss patterns with therapist
• Adjust approach as needed

When Your Therapist Says No

If your therapist is actively opposed to tarot:

1. Understand their concern: They may worry about spiritual bypassing or magical thinking
2. Clarify your use: Explain it's self-reflection, not fortune-telling
3. Respect their boundary: Don't bring it up in session if they're uncomfortable
4. Keep it private: Use tarot for your own process, discuss insights in non-tarot language
5. Consider switching: If the mismatch is too great, find a more aligned therapist

The Therapist's Perspective

Many therapists are more open than you think. From their view, tarot can:

• Increase client engagement between sessions
• Provide rich material for exploration
• Help clients access unconscious content
• Support homework completion
• Empower clients in their own healing

As long as you're not using it to avoid clinical recommendations, most therapists will support tools that help you heal.

Integration: Two Languages, One Healing

Therapy speaks the language of psychology, neuroscience, and evidence-based practice. Tarot speaks the language of symbol, archetype, and intuition. You need both.

Your therapist provides the map, the clinical expertise, the professional container. Tarot provides the compass, the intuitive knowing, the symbolic depth.

Together, they create complete healing: mind and soul, science and spirit, clinical and mystical.

You don't have to choose. You can have both. You deserve both.

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