Black Moon Lilith: Dark Feminine Power & Shadow Work

What is Black Moon Lilith?

Black Moon Lilith is NOT a physical celestial body—it's the lunar apogee, the point in the Moon's orbit where it's FARTHEST from Earth. In astrology and lunar magic, it represents the DARK FEMININE—the wild, untamed, unapologetic feminine power that society tries to suppress.

Lilith is the original wild woman. In mythology, she was Adam's first wife who refused to submit and was cast out of Eden. She represents everything "forbidden" in feminine energy: rage, sexuality, independence, power, darkness, and the refusal to be controlled.

Working with Black Moon Lilith is about reclaiming your WILD, embracing your SHADOW, and owning your POWER unapologetically.

The Energy of Black Moon Lilith

Black Moon Lilith represents:

• Dark Feminine Power: Raw, primal, untamed feminine energy
• Sexual Sovereignty: Owning your sexuality without shame
• Rage & Anger: Righteous feminine anger at oppression
• Independence: Refusing to submit or be controlled
• Shadow Self: The parts of you that you've been taught to hide
• Taboo & Forbidden: What society says you "shouldn't" be
• Wild Nature: Untamed, uncivilized, free
• Rejection of Patriarchy: Refusing to play by oppressive rules

Black Moon Lilith in Your Birth Chart

Everyone has Black Moon Lilith in their natal chart. It shows:

• Where you feel exiled or rejected
• Where you refuse to conform
• Where your wild, untamed power lives
• What you've been shamed for
• Where you need to reclaim your power
• Your deepest, darkest desires
• Where you're unapologetically yourself

To find your Black Moon Lilith: Use a free astrology calculator online and enter your birth date, time, and location. Look for "Lilith" or "Black Moon Lilith."

Working with Black Moon Lilith Energy

This Energy is For:

• Reclaiming your power: Taking back what was taken from you
• Shadow work: Facing your darkness without fear
• Sexual healing: Healing shame around sexuality
• Rage release: Expressing righteous anger safely
• Breaking free: Rejecting oppressive expectations
• Embracing wildness: Reconnecting with your primal nature
• Unapologetic living: Being yourself without apology

This Energy is NOT For:

• People-pleasing or being "nice"
• Playing small or staying safe
• Conforming to expectations
• Suppressing your truth
• Avoiding your shadow

Complete Black Moon Lilith Ritual

What You'll Need:

Crystals: Obsidian, black tourmaline, garnet, bloodstone, smoky quartz

Candles: Black candles, deep red candles, purple candles

Tools: Black mirror, journal, something to safely release rage (pillow, drum), red wine or pomegranate juice, dark red roses

IMPORTANT: This is INTENSE work. Create a safe container. Have support available if needed.

Step-by-Step Lilith Ritual:

Step 1: Create Sacred Dark Space (15 minutes)

1. Turn off all lights
2. Light only black and red candles
3. Create a protective circle with black tourmaline
4. Play primal music (drums, deep bass, wild sounds)
5. Wear black or red, or nothing at all
6. Let your hair down—literally and metaphorically

Step 2: Invoke Lilith Energy (10 minutes)

Stand in power pose and say:

"Lilith, dark mother, wild woman, I call upon your untamed power. I am ready to reclaim what was taken. I am ready to embrace my shadow. I am ready to be WILD. I am ready to be FREE. I refuse to submit. I refuse to be controlled. I AM LILITH. And so it is."

Step 3: The Rage Release (20 minutes)

Lilith holds RAGE. It's time to let it out.

1. Think of everything you're angry about:

• How you've been silenced
• How you've been shamed
• How you've been controlled
• How you've been diminished
• How you've been told to be "nice"

2. SCREAM into a pillow
3. PUNCH a pillow or mattress
4. STOMP your feet
5. ROAR like a wild animal
6. Let the RAGE move through you
7. Don't be polite. Don't be nice. Be WILD.

Step 4: The Shadow Mirror Work (20 minutes)

Face what you've been hiding.

1. Sit before your black mirror or regular mirror in candlelight
2. Look yourself in the eyes
3. Ask: "What part of me have I been hiding?"
4. Journal what comes up:

• What desires have you suppressed?
• What power have you dimmed?
• What wildness have you tamed?
• What sexuality have you shamed?
• What anger have you swallowed?

5. Say to your reflection: "I see you. I accept you. I AM you."

Step 5: The Reclamation Declaration (15 minutes)

Take back your power.

Write and speak aloud:

• "I reclaim my RAGE"
• "I reclaim my SEXUALITY"
• "I reclaim my POWER"
• "I reclaim my WILDNESS"
• "I reclaim my VOICE"
• "I reclaim my BODY"
• "I reclaim my RIGHT to say NO"
• "I reclaim my RIGHT to be UNAPOLOGETIC"

For each one, feel it in your BODY. This isn't intellectual—it's PRIMAL.

Step 6: The Wild Dance (15 minutes)

Lilith is MOVEMENT and WILDNESS.

1. Put on primal, wild music
2. DANCE like no one is watching
3. Move your hips, shake your body
4. Be SEXUAL, be WILD, be FREE
5. Embody the untamed woman
6. Let yourself be FERAL
7. This is YOUR body. Move it however you want.

Step 7: The Lilith Oath (10 minutes)

Make a commitment to your wild self.

Place your hand on your womb/sacral chakra and say:

"I am Lilith. I am wild. I am free. I refuse to submit. I refuse to be controlled. I refuse to be shamed. I own my sexuality. I own my rage. I own my power. I am unapologetically ME. I will not dim my light. I will not tame my wildness. I will not silence my voice. I AM the dark feminine. I AM sovereign. I AM FREE. And so it is."

Step 8: Close and Ground (10 minutes)

This work is INTENSE. Ground yourself.

1. Drink red wine or pomegranate juice (blood of Lilith)
2. Eat dark chocolate or red fruit
3. Place your hands on the earth
4. Thank Lilith for her power
5. Close your protective circle
6. REST deeply—this work is exhausting

Lilith Shadow Work Prompts

1. What parts of myself have I been taught to hide or suppress?
2. Where do I dim my power to make others comfortable?
3. What desires do I have that I'm ashamed of?
4. Where do I say yes when I mean no?
5. What would I do if I didn't care what anyone thought?
6. Where have I been silenced or shamed?
7. What does my wild, untamed self look like?
8. What am I angry about that I haven't expressed?
9. Where do I need to reclaim my sovereignty?
10. What would it feel like to be completely unapologetic?

Living Your Lilith Energy

After working with Lilith, integrate this energy:

• Say NO without explanation: Your no is complete
• Express your desires: Without shame or apology
• Own your sexuality: However it looks for you
• Release rage regularly: Don't let it build up
• Be unapologetically yourself: Stop performing
• Reject oppressive expectations: You don't have to be "nice"
• Embrace your wildness: Dance, move, be free
• Speak your truth: Even when your voice shakes

Lilith Affirmations

• "I am wild and free"
• "I own my sexuality without shame"
• "My rage is sacred and valid"
• "I refuse to submit or be controlled"
• "I am unapologetically myself"
• "I reclaim my dark feminine power"
• "I am Lilith—untamed and sovereign"
• "I will not dim my light for anyone"

Final Thoughts: Reclaim Your Wild

Black Moon Lilith is not for the faint of heart. This is DEEP, PRIMAL, SHADOW work. It will bring up everything you've been taught to suppress—your rage, your sexuality, your power, your wildness.

But here's the truth: You are NOT meant to be tamed. You are NOT meant to be controlled. You are NOT meant to be "nice" and small and quiet.

You are WILD. You are POWERFUL. You are SOVEREIGN.

Lilith was cast out for refusing to submit. She chose exile over oppression. She chose wildness over safety. She chose FREEDOM.

What will you choose?

Reclaim your rage. Own your sexuality. Embrace your shadow. Be unapologetically YOU.

You are Lilith. You are wild. You are FREE.

Enhance your Lilith work with our shadow work crystals, dark feminine candles, and wild woman tools.