The Lovers Tarot Journal Prompts: 30 Days of Choice
BY NICOLE LAU
The Lovers invite you on a 30-day journey of conscious choice, divine union, and integration. These journal prompts are designed to help you deepen your relationship with decision-making, honor your values, and discover the power of choosing with your whole being. Each day explores a different facet of The Lovers' transformative wisdom.
How to Use These Prompts
Daily practice: Set aside 15-20 minutes each day to write. Create a sacred space, light a candle, and let The Lovers' wisdom flow through your pen.
30-day commitment: Complete all prompts in order over 30 consecutive days for maximum transformation.
What you'll need: A dedicated journal, The Lovers tarot card for visual reference, and willingness to choose consciously.
Week 1: Awakening to Choice
Day 1: Your Relationship with Choice
Prompt: How do I currently make choices? Do I choose consciously or by default? What's my relationship with decision-making?
Day 2: What I'm Avoiding
Prompt: What choice am I currently avoiding? Why? What am I afraid will happen if I choose?
Day 3: Your Values
Prompt: What are my core values? What matters most to me? What will I not compromise?
Day 4: Alignment Check
Prompt: Are my current choices aligned with my values? Where am I living in alignment? Where am I not?
Day 5: Integration
Prompt: What opposites exist within me? What parts of myself am I keeping separate? What needs integration?
Day 6: Mind and Heart
Prompt: Do my mind and heart agree on my current path? Am I choosing with my whole being?
Day 7: Weekly Reflection
Prompt: What has this first week revealed about my relationship with choice and alignment?
Week 2: Deepening Awareness
Day 8: Past Choices
Prompt: What was the best choice I ever made? What made it right? What can I learn from it?
Day 9: Regrets
Prompt: What choice do I regret? What would I do differently? What did I learn?
Day 10: Divine Union
Prompt: What does divine union mean to me? Have I experienced it? What would it look like in my life?
Day 11: Relationships
Prompt: Are my relationships based on conscious choice or habit? Am I choosing my connections?
Day 12: Vulnerability
Prompt: Can I be vulnerable and authentic like The Lovers naked before the angel? Where do I hide?
Day 13: Partnership
Prompt: What makes a sacred partnership? Do I have this? What would it require?
Day 14: Weekly Reflection
Prompt: How has my awareness of choice and union deepened this week?
Week 3: Choosing Consciously
Day 15: The Choice Before Me
Prompt: What choice am I facing right now? What are my options? What does each offer?
Day 16: Alignment Test
Prompt: Which choice aligns with my values? Which honors my truth? Which feels right in my body?
Day 17: Fear and Choice
Prompt: What fears are influencing my choices? Am I choosing from fear or from alignment?
Day 18: Compromise vs. Integration
Prompt: Am I compromising or integrating? Am I settling or finding a third way?
Day 19: Consequences
Prompt: What are the consequences of each choice? Can I accept them? Am I ready?
Day 20: Divine Blessing
Prompt: Which choice feels divinely blessed? Which path has the angel's approval?
Day 21: Weekly Reflection
Prompt: What clarity have I gained about my choice this week?
Week 4: Integration & Commitment
Day 22: Making the Choice
Prompt: I choose [write your choice]. I choose this because [write why]. I commit to this choice.
Day 23: Honoring Your Choice
Prompt: How will I honor this choice? What actions will demonstrate my commitment?
Day 24: Letting Go
Prompt: What am I not choosing? Can I let it go with grace? What do I need to release?
Day 25: Integration Practice
Prompt: How can I integrate the opposites within me? What would wholeness look like?
Day 26: Authenticity
Prompt: Am I being authentic in my choices? Can I be naked and unashamed like The Lovers?
Day 27: Sacred Union
Prompt: How can I create sacred union in my life? What would divine partnership require?
Day 28: Weekly Reflection
Prompt: How has my relationship with choice transformed this week?
Week 5: Embodiment & Commitment
Day 29: I Am The Lovers
Prompt: How have I embodied The Lovers over these 30 days? What has transformed in my relationship with choice and union?
Day 30: The Commitment
Prompt: What is my commitment to conscious choice going forward? How will I continue to choose with awareness and alignment?
Bonus Prompts for Ongoing Practice
When Facing Decisions
Prompt: What choice am I facing? Does it align with my values? Am I choosing with my whole being?
When Feeling Divided
Prompt: What opposites are at war within me? How can I integrate them instead of choosing one?
When Seeking Union
Prompt: What would divine union look like? Am I choosing it consciously?
How to Deepen Your Practice
Create ritual: Light a candle, place The Lovers card before you, create sacred space before each journaling session.
Track patterns: At the end of 30 days, read through all entries. What themes emerge?
Take action: Journaling without action is just thinking on paper. Let insights inform choices.
Repeat the cycle: After 30 days, start again. Notice how answers evolve.
Signs Your Journaling is Working
- Making decisions more easily and consciously
- Greater clarity about your values and truth
- Feeling more integrated and whole
- Less inner conflict and division
- Ability to choose without regret
- More authentic and vulnerable in relationships
- Sense of divine blessing in your choices
Closing Blessing
May your pen be conscious.
May your choices be aligned.
May your integration be complete.
May your union be divine.
May you discover, through writing, that you are The Lovers.
The choice is within you. The power is real. The only question is: are you ready to choose with your whole being?
Pick up your pen. Open your journal. Begin.
