Waxing vs Waning Moon: When to Do What Magic

Waxing vs Waning Moon: When to Do What Magic

The Two Halves of the Lunar Cycle

The lunar cycle is divided into two OPPOSITE energies: WAXING (growing) and WANING (decreasing). Understanding this fundamental difference is the KEY to effective lunar magic and living in harmony with natural rhythms.

Waxing Moon = BUILD, ATTRACT, GROW, ADD

Waning Moon = RELEASE, BANISH, DECREASE, REMOVE

It's that simple—and that powerful.

What is Waxing Moon? 🌒🌓🌔🌕

Duration: From New Moon to Full Moon (approximately 14 days)

Phases Included:

  • New Moon 🌑
  • Waxing Crescent 🌒
  • First Quarter 🌓
  • Waxing Gibbous 🌔
  • Full Moon 🌕

Energy: INCREASING, BUILDING, GROWING, ATTRACTING

Direction: UPWARD and OUTWARD

Symbolism: Spring and Summer, Youth to Maturity, Planting to Harvest

What is Waning Moon? 🌖🌗🌘🌑

Duration: From Full Moon to New Moon (approximately 14 days)

Phases Included:

  • Full Moon 🌕 (peak before decline)
  • Waning Gibbous 🌖
  • Last Quarter 🌗
  • Waning Crescent 🌘
  • Dark/New Moon 🌑

Energy: DECREASING, RELEASING, SHRINKING, BANISHING

Direction: DOWNWARD and INWARD

Symbolism: Autumn and Winter, Maturity to Rest, Harvest to Composting

Key Differences: Waxing vs Waning

Aspect Waxing Moon 🌒 Waning Moon 🌘
Energy BUILDING, increasing RELEASING, decreasing
Action DO, create, add UNDO, release, remove
Focus What you WANT What you DON'T want
Magic Attraction, manifestation Banishing, releasing
Physical Energy RISING Energy FALLING
Emotional Optimistic, active Reflective, restful
Season Spring/Summer Autumn/Winter
Breath INHALE (taking in) EXHALE (letting go)

Complete Guide: What to Do During Waxing Moon

✅ WAXING MOON IS FOR:

Manifestation & Attraction:

  • Manifest desires and goals
  • Attract love, money, opportunities
  • Draw things TO you
  • Set intentions (especially at New Moon)
  • Visualize what you want

Building & Creating:

  • Start new projects or businesses
  • Begin new relationships
  • Create and build
  • Develop skills and knowledge
  • Grow your platform or audience

Increasing & Expanding:

  • Increase income or abundance
  • Expand your business
  • Grow your energy and vitality
  • Build muscle or strength
  • Increase visibility

Action & Productivity:

  • Take action on goals
  • Be productive and active
  • Make things happen
  • Push forward
  • Build momentum

Positive Magic:

  • Love spells (attracting love)
  • Money magic (attracting abundance)
  • Success spells
  • Healing magic (building health)
  • Protection spells (building shields)

Complete Guide: What to Do During Waning Moon

✅ WANING MOON IS FOR:

Releasing & Letting Go:

  • Release what no longer serves
  • Let go of the past
  • Forgive and move on
  • Release attachments
  • Clear emotional baggage

Banishing & Removing:

  • Banish negativity
  • Remove obstacles
  • End toxic relationships
  • Break bad habits
  • Clear away what's blocking you

Decreasing & Reducing:

  • Reduce debt
  • Lose weight (if desired)
  • Decrease stress or anxiety
  • Minimize clutter
  • Shrink problems

Cleansing & Clearing:

  • Cleanse your space
  • Clear your energy
  • Detox your body
  • Declutter your home
  • Purify and cleanse

Rest & Restoration:

  • Rest deeply
  • Restore your energy
  • Slow down
  • Reflect and review
  • Prepare for new beginnings

Banishing Magic:

  • Banishing spells
  • Cord cutting rituals
  • Breaking hexes or curses
  • Ending spells
  • Protection magic (removing threats)

Quick Reference: When to Do What

WAXING MOON - Do This:

  • ✅ Start new jobs or projects
  • ✅ Begin new relationships
  • ✅ Launch products or businesses
  • ✅ Apply for opportunities
  • ✅ Plant seeds (literal and metaphorical)
  • ✅ Make vision boards
  • ✅ Set goals and intentions
  • ✅ Take action and be productive
  • ✅ Charge crystals and tools
  • ✅ Make moon water for manifestation

WANING MOON - Do This:

  • ✅ End toxic relationships
  • ✅ Quit bad habits
  • ✅ Declutter and organize
  • ✅ Release and forgive
  • ✅ Cleanse your space
  • ✅ Rest and restore
  • ✅ Reflect and review
  • ✅ Banish negativity
  • ✅ Cut cords
  • ✅ Make moon water for cleansing

Common Mistakes

❌ DON'T Do During Waxing Moon:

  • Banishing or releasing work (save for waning)
  • Focusing on what you DON'T want
  • Resting too much (this is action time!)
  • Ending things (unless they're truly done)

❌ DON'T Do During Waning Moon:

  • Starting major new projects (save for waxing)
  • Manifestation work (less effective)
  • Pushing too hard (honor the rest)
  • Ignoring the need to release

The Full Cycle: Waxing AND Waning Together

The magic happens when you work with BOTH:

  1. WANING MOON: Release what's blocking you
  2. NEW MOON: Set intentions for what you want
  3. WAXING MOON: Take action to manifest it
  4. FULL MOON: Celebrate and release what's complete
  5. WANING MOON: Let go and rest
  6. Repeat

This is the COMPLETE lunar cycle—release, intend, build, celebrate, release again.

Waxing vs Waning in Daily Life

Work & Career:

  • Waxing: Launch projects, apply for jobs, network, be visible
  • Waning: Complete projects, organize, plan, rest

Relationships:

  • Waxing: Start new relationships, deepen connections, be social
  • Waning: End toxic relationships, set boundaries, have alone time

Health & Fitness:

  • Waxing: Build muscle, start new routines, increase energy
  • Waning: Detox, rest, release tension, gentle movement

Creativity:

  • Waxing: Create actively, start projects, build momentum
  • Waning: Edit, refine, complete, rest creative energy

Affirmations by Moon Phase

Waxing Moon Affirmations:

  • "I am attracting abundance"
  • "I am building my dreams"
  • "I am growing and expanding"
  • "I am taking action"
  • "I am manifesting my desires"

Waning Moon Affirmations:

  • "I am releasing what no longer serves"
  • "I am letting go with ease"
  • "I am cleansing and clearing"
  • "I am resting and restoring"
  • "I am making space for new blessings"

Final Thoughts: Work WITH the Moon, Not Against It

The biggest mistake people make is trying to MANIFEST during waning moon or RELEASE during waxing moon. It's like trying to plant seeds in winter or harvest in spring—you're working AGAINST natural rhythms.

When you align with the moon's energy:

  • Manifestation becomes EASIER (waxing moon supports it)
  • Releasing becomes NATURAL (waning moon supports it)
  • You stop fighting your own energy
  • You flow with nature instead of against it

It's simple:

  • Moon growing? YOU grow. Build. Attract. Create.
  • Moon shrinking? YOU release. Rest. Let go. Cleanse.

Follow the moon. Trust the rhythm. Work with the cycle.

Waxing and waning. Building and releasing. Inhale and exhale. This is the dance of life.

Dance with the moon.

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