Fives in Tarot: Conflict, Change & Challenge

BY NICOLE LAU

After the stability of the Fours comes the number five—the moment when order is disrupted, when peace is broken, when change forces itself upon us. The Fives represent conflict, challenge, and the necessary chaos that breaks us out of stagnation. When a Five appears in your reading, something is being challenged, disrupted, or changed—often uncomfortably.

In this guide, we'll explore all four Fives together, understanding how conflict and change manifest through Fire, Water, Air, and Earth. Each Five shows a different kind of challenge, a different disruption, a different way that stability must be broken for growth to continue.

The Essence of Fives: Disruption and Challenge

All Fives share common qualities:

• Conflict - Tension, struggle, or battle of some kind
• Change - The stable Four is disrupted, forcing movement
• Challenge - Difficulty that tests you and requires response
• Loss or defeat - Something is lost, taken, or doesn't work out
• Necessary disruption - The chaos that prevents stagnation

The Fives are often seen as negative cards, but they serve a crucial purpose: they break us out of the comfortable stagnation of the Fours. Without the Fives, we would stay stuck forever.

Five of Wands: The Conflict of Competition

Element: Fire
Energy: Competition, conflict, struggle
The Challenge: Multiple forces clashing, everyone fighting for dominance

What's Happening:

The Five of Wands shows five figures with wands raised, appearing to battle or compete. This is Fire as conflict—passionate clashing, competitive struggle, everyone trying to assert their vision or will.

The Five of Wands represents:

• Competition and rivalry
• Conflict and disagreement
• Struggle to be heard or seen
• Creative tension or brainstorming chaos
• Fighting for your position or vision

The Disruption:

Fire disrupts through competition and conflict. The harmony of the Four of Wands is broken by competing visions, clashing egos, or the struggle to assert yourself.

The Lesson:

Not all conflict is bad. Sometimes competition pushes you to be better. Sometimes struggle clarifies what you really want. The question is: are you fighting for something worth fighting for?

Five of Cups: The Grief of Loss

Element: Water
Energy: Loss, grief, disappointment
The Challenge: Facing what's been lost while missing what remains

What's Happening:

The Five of Cups shows a cloaked figure looking at three spilled cups while two cups remain standing behind them. This is Water as grief—the pain of loss, the focus on what's gone, the inability to see what remains.

The Five of Cups represents:

• Loss and disappointment
• Grief and mourning
• Focusing on what's gone rather than what remains
• Emotional pain and heartbreak
• The need to turn around and see the two cups still standing

The Disruption:

Water disrupts through loss and grief. The apathy of the Four of Cups is broken by real loss, forcing you to feel again—even if what you feel is pain.

The Lesson:

Loss is real and grief is necessary. But don't get so focused on what's gone that you miss what remains. Three cups have spilled, but two still stand. Turn around.

Five of Swords: The Defeat of Hollow Victory

Element: Air
Energy: Defeat, conflict, hollow victory
The Challenge: Winning at the cost of relationships, or losing with dignity

What's Happening:

The Five of Swords shows a figure holding three swords while two others walk away, having dropped their swords. This is Air as conflict—mental battle, harsh words, winning at all costs, or accepting defeat.

The Five of Swords represents:

• Conflict and defeat
• Winning at the cost of relationships
• Harsh words or mental cruelty
• Accepting loss and walking away
• The question: was it worth it?

The Disruption:

Air disrupts through conflict and defeat. The rest of the Four of Swords is broken by battle—mental, verbal, or relational. Someone wins, someone loses, but everyone is wounded.

The Lesson:

Not every battle needs to be fought. Not every argument needs to be won. Sometimes the wisest choice is to walk away. Sometimes victory costs more than it's worth.

Five of Pentacles: The Hardship of Material Struggle

Element: Earth
Energy: Poverty, hardship, struggle
The Challenge: Material difficulty and the feeling of being left out in the cold

What's Happening:

The Five of Pentacles shows two figures in the snow, passing by a lit church window. This is Earth as scarcity—material hardship, financial struggle, feeling abandoned or unsupported.

The Five of Pentacles represents:

• Financial hardship or poverty
• Material struggle and lack
• Feeling left out in the cold
• Health issues or physical difficulty
• Help is available but you must seek it (the church window)

The Disruption:

Earth disrupts through material loss and hardship. The security of the Four of Pentacles is broken by real scarcity, forcing you to let go of control and ask for help.

The Lesson:

Hardship is real and struggle is difficult. But help exists—you may need to look up and ask for it. Pride shouldn't prevent you from seeking support when you need it.

Comparing the Fives: What's Being Challenged?

When a Five appears, ask yourself:

Is this about competition or conflict? → Five of Wands
Is this about loss or grief? → Five of Cups
Is this about defeat or hollow victory? → Five of Swords
Is this about material hardship? → Five of Pentacles

Each Five presents a different kind of challenge, but all break the stability of the Fours.

Why the Fives Are Necessary

The Fives are uncomfortable, but they serve a crucial purpose:

• They break us out of the stagnation of the Fours
• They force growth through challenge
• They teach resilience and adaptability
• They show us what we're made of
• They prepare us for the harmony of the Sixes

Without the Fives, we would stay comfortable but stuck. The Fives are the chaos that forces evolution.

The Light and Shadow of Fives

Constructive Expressions:

• Healthy competition that pushes growth
• Grief that honors loss and allows healing
• Conflict that clarifies values and boundaries
• Hardship that builds resilience and humility

Destructive Expressions:

• Pointless fighting and ego battles
• Drowning in grief and refusing to move forward
• Winning at the cost of everything that matters
• Staying in hardship out of pride or victimhood

Multiple Fives in a Reading

Two Fives: Challenges in multiple areas. Life is testing you on several fronts.

Three Fives: Significant period of difficulty. Multiple challenges are converging. This is a testing time.

Four Fives: Crisis or major life disruption. Everything is being challenged. This is intense but temporary—the Fives always pass.

Fives in Different Positions

Past Position: A challenge you've already faced. The conflict has passed, but its effects may linger.

Present Position: You're currently in the challenge. This is the test you're facing now.

Future Position: A challenge is coming. Prepare yourself. Build resilience.

Advice Position: Face the challenge. Don't avoid the conflict. Learn from the difficulty. Grow through the struggle.

When Fives Appear Reversed

Reversed Fives indicate:

• Recovery from challenge - The worst is passing, healing is beginning
• Avoiding necessary conflict - Running from challenges that need to be faced
• Internal conflict - The battle is within rather than external
• Prolonged difficulty - The challenge is lasting longer than it should
• Learning the lesson - Beginning to understand what the challenge is teaching

Working with Five Energy

To navigate Fives when they appear:

1. Acknowledge the challenge - Don't deny or minimize the difficulty. It's real.

2. Identify the type - Is this conflict (Wands), loss (Cups), defeat (Swords), or hardship (Pentacles)?

3. Find the lesson - What is this challenge teaching you? What growth is it forcing?

4. Respond wisely - Not all challenges require fighting. Sometimes wisdom is walking away.

5. Remember it's temporary - The Fives always pass. After Five comes Six—harmony is coming.

The Spiritual Meaning of Fives

In numerology, five represents change, freedom, and disruption. It's the number that breaks patterns, that refuses to stay still, that forces evolution. The Fives in tarot embody this energy—they're the necessary chaos that prevents stagnation.

The question the Fives ask is: can you grow through challenge? Can you learn from difficulty? Can you let disruption transform you rather than destroy you?

Conclusion: The Sacred Struggle

Fives are difficult cards, but they're also transformative. Whether it's the competitive conflict of Wands, the grieving loss of Cups, the defeating battle of Swords, or the material hardship of Pentacles—five represents the challenges that force us to grow.

The Fives teach us that comfort is not the goal of life—growth is. That stability must be disrupted for evolution to continue. That challenge, though painful, is the crucible in which we're refined.

The question is: will you let the challenge break you or make you? Will you learn from the difficulty or just suffer through it?

The storm is here. How will you weather it?