Reiki Explained: What Happens in a Session (First-Timer's Guide)
You've heard about Reiki—maybe a friend raved about their session, or you've seen it offered at spas and wellness centers. But what exactly is Reiki, and what happens during a session? If you're curious but nervous about trying this mysterious energy healing practice, you're not alone. Many first-timers wonder: Will I have to get undressed? Will it hurt? What will I feel? Is it safe?
This complete first-timer's guide demystifies Reiki, explaining exactly what it is, what happens during a session, what you'll experience, and what to expect before, during, and after. Whether you're booking your first appointment or just curious about this ancient healing art, this guide will help you feel informed, comfortable, and ready to experience the profound relaxation and healing that Reiki offers.
What Is Reiki?
The Basics
Reiki (pronounced "ray-key") is a Japanese energy healing technique developed in the early 1900s by Mikao Usui. The word comes from two Japanese words:
- Rei: Universal, spiritual wisdom, or divine
- Ki: Life force energy (similar to "chi" in Chinese or "prana" in Sanskrit)
Together, Reiki means "universal life force energy" or "spiritually guided life force energy."
How Reiki Works
Reiki is based on the principle that a universal life force energy flows through all living things. When this energy is blocked, depleted, or imbalanced, we experience physical, emotional, or spiritual dis-ease. Reiki practitioners act as channels for this healing energy, allowing it to flow through their hands to the client, where it goes to wherever healing is needed most.
Key principles:
- The practitioner doesn't "do" the healing—they channel universal energy
- The energy is intelligent and goes where it's needed
- Reiki works on physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual levels
- It's non-invasive, gentle, and safe
- It complements (doesn't replace) medical treatment
What Reiki Is NOT
Let's clear up common misconceptions:
- Not a religion: Reiki is spiritual but not religious; people of all faiths (or no faith) can practice and receive it
- Not massage: While you lie on a table, there's minimal to no pressure—it's energy work, not bodywork
- Not a cure-all: Reiki supports healing but doesn't replace medical care
- Not the practitioner's energy: Practitioners channel universal energy, not their own
- Not dependent on belief: Reiki works whether you believe in it or not (though openness helps)
What Happens During a Reiki Session: Step-by-Step
Before the Session
Booking Your Appointment
- Duration: Sessions typically last 60-90 minutes
- Cost: Varies widely ($50-150+ depending on location and practitioner experience)
- What to wear: Comfortable, loose clothing (you stay fully dressed)
- What to bring: Just yourself; some people bring water
Preparing for Your Session
- Avoid heavy meals right before (light eating is fine)
- Stay hydrated
- Arrive a few minutes early to settle in
- Turn off your phone
- Set an intention for healing (optional but helpful)
- Come with an open mind and heart
Arrival and Intake (10-15 minutes)
What Happens
- Welcome and paperwork: You'll fill out a brief intake form about your health history and what you're seeking help with
- Consultation: The practitioner will ask about your physical, emotional, or spiritual concerns
- Explanation: They'll explain what will happen during the session
- Questions: This is your time to ask anything you're wondering about
- Setting intention: You may be asked what you'd like to focus on (pain relief, stress reduction, emotional healing, etc.)
What to Share
- Any physical pain or health issues
- Emotional or mental health concerns
- What you're hoping to get from the session
- Any areas you don't want touched (practitioners will respect this)
- If you're pregnant (Reiki is safe during pregnancy but practitioners should know)
The Reiki Session (45-60 minutes)
The Setup
- The table: You'll lie on a massage table (similar to a massage setup)
- Clothing: You stay fully clothed; just remove shoes and jewelry if you wish
- Comfort: You'll be covered with a blanket; pillows support your head and knees
- Position: Usually lying on your back; you may be asked to turn over halfway through
- Environment: Soft lighting, calming music, comfortable temperature
What the Practitioner Does
The practitioner will place their hands in a series of positions on or above your body, typically including:
- Head positions: Hands on or above the crown, forehead, temples, back of head
- Front torso: Throat, heart, solar plexus, lower abdomen
- Back (if you turn over): Shoulders, mid-back, lower back
- Legs and feet (optional): Knees, ankles, feet
Important: The practitioner may:
- Place hands lightly on your body (with permission)
- Hold hands a few inches above your body (no-touch Reiki)
- Spend 3-5 minutes in each position
- Spend extra time on areas that need more healing
What You Do
- Relax: Close your eyes, breathe naturally, and let go
- Receive: You don't have to "do" anything—just receive the energy
- Notice: Pay attention to sensations, but don't force anything
- Communicate: If you're uncomfortable, speak up
- Let go: Release expectations and trust the process
After the Session (10-15 minutes)
Closing the Session
- The practitioner will gently let you know the session is complete
- Take your time sitting up—you may feel deeply relaxed or even sleepy
- Drink water (practitioners usually offer this)
- Share your experience if you wish
- The practitioner may share what they sensed or felt
Post-Session Discussion
Your practitioner may:
- Ask how you're feeling
- Share insights about energy blockages they noticed
- Offer suggestions for self-care
- Recommend follow-up sessions if appropriate
- Answer any questions about your experience
What You Might Feel During Reiki
Everyone's experience is unique, but common sensations include:
Physical Sensations
- Warmth or heat: Most common; feels like gentle warmth from the practitioner's hands
- Tingling or buzzing: Like gentle electricity or energy moving
- Coolness: Some people feel cool sensations
- Pulsing or throbbing: Rhythmic sensations
- Heaviness or lightness: Feeling weighted down or floating
- Muscle twitches: Small involuntary movements as energy releases
- Deep relaxation: Profound sense of peace and letting go
Emotional Experiences
- Emotional release: Tears, laughter, or other emotions surfacing (completely normal)
- Peace and calm: Deep sense of tranquility
- Joy or bliss: Unexpected happiness or contentment
- Sadness or grief: Old emotions releasing (this is healing)
- Love and connection: Feeling connected to something greater
Mental/Spiritual Experiences
- Visions or colors: Seeing colors, patterns, or images with eyes closed
- Memories surfacing: Old memories or insights arising
- Clarity or insights: Sudden understanding or answers to questions
- Altered state: Feeling between waking and sleeping
- Spiritual connection: Feeling connected to the divine or your higher self
Or... Nothing at All
Important: Some people feel very little during their first session. This doesn't mean it's not working! Reiki works on subtle levels, and benefits often appear in the days following the session. Not everyone is sensitive to energy sensations, and that's perfectly normal.
What to Expect After Your Session
Immediate Effects (Same Day)
- Deep relaxation: Feeling very calm and peaceful
- Sleepiness: Wanting to rest or nap
- Energized: Some people feel revitalized and energetic
- Emotional: Feeling more emotionally open or sensitive
- Clarity: Mental clarity and focus
- Thirst: Increased thirst as energy moves
The Healing Process (Days to Weeks)
Positive Effects
- Reduced pain or discomfort
- Better sleep
- Improved mood
- Increased energy
- Greater emotional balance
- Enhanced clarity and focus
- Feeling more centered and grounded
Healing Crisis (Temporary)
Some people experience a "healing crisis" as the body processes and releases:
- Fatigue: Needing extra rest for a day or two
- Emotional release: Crying, anger, or other emotions surfacing
- Physical symptoms: Headache, digestive changes, or cold-like symptoms
- Vivid dreams: Intense or unusual dreams
- Old issues surfacing: Past emotions or memories coming up to be healed
Don't worry! This is temporary (usually 24-48 hours) and indicates deep healing is occurring. It's like cleaning out a closet—things get messier before they get organized.
Self-Care After Reiki
Support your healing process:
- Drink lots of water: Helps flush released toxins and energy
- Rest: Honor your body's need for sleep or quiet time
- Eat light: Avoid heavy meals; choose nourishing, simple foods
- Avoid alcohol: Skip alcohol for 24 hours to allow healing to integrate
- Journal: Write down insights, dreams, or experiences
- Be gentle: Don't schedule intense activities right after
- Spend time in nature: Helps ground the energy
- Meditate: Continue the peaceful state
How Many Sessions Do You Need?
For General Wellness
- One session: Can provide deep relaxation and stress relief
- Monthly sessions: Good for maintenance and ongoing wellness
- Seasonal sessions: Four times a year for energetic tune-ups
For Specific Issues
- Acute issues: 3-4 sessions close together (weekly) then reassess
- Chronic conditions: Regular sessions (weekly or bi-weekly) for several months
- Emotional healing: Series of sessions as needed
- Spiritual growth: Ongoing sessions as part of spiritual practice
Note: Reiki is cumulative—effects build over multiple sessions. While one session can be powerful, a series often provides deeper, lasting healing.
Is Reiki Safe?
Yes! Reiki is one of the safest healing modalities available:
- Non-invasive: No manipulation of the body
- Gentle: Cannot cause harm
- No side effects: Only positive effects (though healing crisis can occur)
- Safe for everyone: Children, elderly, pregnant women, people with serious illness
- Complements medical care: Works alongside conventional treatment
- No contraindications: No conditions that prevent receiving Reiki
Special Populations
- Pregnancy: Safe and beneficial; inform your practitioner
- Children: Sessions are shorter (20-30 minutes) and very gentle
- Elderly: Gentle and supportive; no age limit
- Serious illness: Supportive alongside medical treatment; inform practitioner
- Mental health: Can support therapy; not a replacement for it
Choosing a Reiki Practitioner
What to Look For
- Training and certification: Look for Reiki Master or Reiki Master Teacher certification
- Experience: Ask how long they've been practicing
- Lineage: Reiki is passed through lineages; ask about their training
- Professional membership: Membership in organizations like IARP (International Association of Reiki Professionals)
- Insurance: Professional liability insurance
- Reviews: Check testimonials and reviews
Red Flags
- Guarantees of cure or specific outcomes
- Pressure to buy multiple sessions upfront
- Claims to diagnose medical conditions
- Inappropriate touching or boundary violations
- Telling you to stop medical treatment
- Lack of clear pricing or policies
Trust Your Intuition
The most important factor: Do you feel comfortable with this person? Trust your gut. A good practitioner will:
- Make you feel safe and respected
- Answer your questions clearly
- Respect your boundaries
- Be professional yet warm
- Honor your experience without judgment
Common Questions First-Timers Ask
Will I have to get undressed?
No. You stay fully clothed. Just remove shoes and any bulky jewelry if you wish.
Will the practitioner touch me?
Maybe. Some practitioners use light touch; others work with hands above the body. You can request no-touch if you prefer.
What if I fall asleep?
That's fine! Many people do. The healing still works.
What if I need to move or use the bathroom?
Speak up! You can adjust position or take a break anytime.
What if I don't feel anything?
Normal! Not everyone feels sensations. The healing still occurs.
Can Reiki cure my illness?
Reiki supports healing but doesn't replace medical care. It can help with symptoms, stress, and overall wellbeing alongside conventional treatment.
Do I have to believe in it for it to work?
No. Reiki works whether you believe or not, though openness helps you receive more fully.
Is it religious?
No. Reiki is spiritual but not religious. People of all faiths (or no faith) can receive it.
Final Thoughts
Your first Reiki session is a gentle introduction to energy healing. There's nothing to fear and everything to gain—deep relaxation at minimum, profound healing at best. Most people leave their first session feeling peaceful, calm, and curious to experience more.
Remember: Reiki meets you where you are. Whether you're seeking physical pain relief, emotional healing, stress reduction, or spiritual growth, Reiki offers gentle, intelligent support for your healing journey.
Come with an open heart, release expectations, and allow yourself to receive. The universal life force energy knows exactly where to go and what to do. Your only job is to relax and let it work.
Ready to book your first session? Trust that you're being guided to exactly the healing you need. The energy is waiting to support you.
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