Research on Neuroplasticity: Rewiring for Internal Locus
BY NICOLE LAU
The Psychology of Internal Locus: Why Most Suffering is Optional
Neuroplasticity research offers profound hope: the brain can rewire from external to internal locus. Neural pathways of conditional worth, approval-seeking, and worthlessness can be weakened while new pathways of inherent worth and self-acceptance are strengthened. This isn't just psychological change - it's structural brain change. Neurons that fire together wire together, and through repeated practice, therapy, and new experiences, you can literally rewire your brain for internal locus.
What is Neuroplasticity?
Definition: The brain's ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections throughout life.
Key Principle: "Neurons that fire together wire together" (Hebb's Law). Repeated patterns of thought and behavior strengthen neural pathways. Unused pathways weaken.
Implication for Locus: External locus patterns (conditional worth, approval-seeking) are neural pathways that can be weakened. Internal locus patterns (inherent worth, self-acceptance) are neural pathways that can be strengthened.
Mechanisms of Neuroplastic Change
1. Synaptic Strengthening
Process: Repeated activation of neural pathway makes synapses stronger and more efficient.
Application: Repeatedly practicing self-compassion, recognizing inherent worth, setting boundaries - these strengthen internal locus pathways.
2. Synaptic Pruning
Process: Unused neural pathways weaken and are eventually pruned away.
Application: When you stop engaging in approval-seeking, perfectionism, people-pleasing - these external locus pathways weaken.
3. Neurogenesis
Process: New neurons are born, particularly in hippocampus (learning, memory).
Factors That Promote: Exercise, learning, enriched environment, mindfulness.
Application: New neurons can encode new patterns - internal locus can be learned at the cellular level.
4. Myelination
Process: Myelin (insulation) grows around frequently used pathways, making them faster and more automatic.
Application: With practice, internal locus becomes automatic - you don't have to consciously remind yourself of your worth.
Research on Therapy-Induced Neuroplasticity
CBT Changes Brain Structure: Studies show CBT creates measurable brain changes - increased PFC activity, decreased amygdala reactivity. This is rewiring from external (threat-based) to internal (regulated) locus.
Mindfulness Thickens Cortex: Regular meditation increases cortical thickness in areas related to attention, interoception, sensory processing. This supports embodied internal locus.
Attachment Therapy Rewires: Secure attachment experiences (in therapy or relationships) can create new neural patterns, even after insecure childhood attachment.
Critical Periods vs Lifelong Plasticity
Critical Periods: Early development has heightened plasticity. Childhood experiences create strong neural patterns (including locus patterns).
Lifelong Plasticity: The brain remains plastic throughout life. You can rewire locus patterns at any age, though it requires more effort than in childhood.
Hope: Even if you developed external locus in childhood, you can build internal locus in adulthood through neuroplastic change.
Practical Applications for Rewiring
1. Repetition: Practice internal locus thoughts and behaviors daily. Repetition strengthens pathways.
2. Attention: What you pay attention to grows stronger. Notice moments of inherent worth. This strengthens those neural patterns.
3. Emotion: Emotionally charged experiences create stronger neural encoding. Celebrate moments of internal locus with positive emotion.
4. Novelty: New experiences promote plasticity. Try new ways of relating to yourself and others from internal locus.
5. Sleep: Sleep consolidates new neural patterns. Adequate sleep supports rewiring.
Why This Matters
Neuroplasticity research matters because:
1. It offers hope. Locus isn't fixed. The brain can change. External to internal locus is possible at any age.
2. It's evidence-based. Brain imaging shows actual structural changes from therapy, mindfulness, new experiences.
3. It guides practice. Understanding neuroplasticity helps us practice effectively - repetition, attention, emotion all matter.
4. It's empowering. You're not stuck with childhood patterns. You can actively rewire your brain for internal locus.
The Bottom Line
Neuroplasticity research shows the brain can rewire from external to internal locus. Neural pathways of conditional worth and approval-seeking can weaken while pathways of inherent worth and self-acceptance strengthen. This happens through repeated practice, therapy, mindfulness, and new experiences. Neurons that fire together wire together - and you can intentionally fire and wire internal locus patterns. This is structural brain change, not just psychological change. This is evidence-based hope.
This concludes the neuroscience research of Part III.
The Psychology of Internal Locus series explores why most psychological suffering is optional and how internal locus of value prevents it at the root cause.
— Nicole Lau, 2026
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