Cord Cutting Love Release: Energetic Detachment
Severing Energetic Ties
Cord cutting is severing the energetic cords that keep you attached to past lovers. These invisible cords drain your energy and prevent you from fully moving on or attracting new love.
Signs You Need Cord Cutting
- You can't stop thinking about your ex
- You feel drained when thinking of them
- You keep attracting similar toxic partners
- You feel their emotions even when apart
- You can't fully open to new love
Cord Cutting Ritual
You'll need: Two candles, black thread, scissors, black tourmaline
The ritual:
1. Set up candles (5 minutes)
One candle represents you, one represents them. Place them apart with black thread connecting them.
2. Visualize the cords (10 minutes)
Close your eyes. See the energetic cords between you—they might look like ropes, chains, or threads of light.
3. Cut the thread (5 minutes)
Take scissors. Cut the black thread while saying: "I cut all cords between us. I am free. You are free. We release each other with love."
4. Visualize cutting energetic cords (10 minutes)
See yourself cutting each energetic cord. Watch them dissolve. Feel the freedom.
5. Fill the space (5 minutes)
Where the cords were, visualize golden light filling the space. You're whole without them.
6. Ground with crystal (5 minutes)
Hold black tourmaline. Let any remaining attachment drain into the stone, then into earth.
After Cord Cutting
You may feel: Lighter, freer, sad (grief is normal), relieved, or energized. All normal. You've just reclaimed your energy.
Your Cord Cutting Practice
Cord cutting isn't about hate—it's about freedom. You can love someone and still cut cords. You're freeing both of you to find your right paths.