Deepening an Existing Connection: The Third Pentacle for Established Relationships
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The Third Pentacle of Venus is not only for drawing new love; it is equally powerful for deepening an existing romantic connection — for increasing the love and affection within a relationship that is already established, for strengthening the pull between two people who are already together, and for cultivating the ongoing warmth and affection that sustains a genuine long-term connection.
Why Existing Connections Need Cultivation
Every genuine connection requires ongoing cultivation. The initial intensity of new love naturally settles over time into a more stable, comfortable warmth — which is valuable and real, but which can sometimes feel less vivid than the early stages of the relationship. The pull of affection that was so strong at the beginning can become less consciously felt as the relationship becomes familiar and routine.
This is not a failure of the relationship; it is a natural phase that every genuine connection passes through. But it is a phase that benefits from active cultivation — from deliberate attention to the quality of the connection and the depth of the feeling between the two people. The Third Pentacle is a powerful tool for this cultivation: it strengthens the pull of affection between the practitioner and their partner, deepening the love and warmth of the existing connection.
How the Third Pentacle Deepens Existing Connections
Strengthening the pull: The Third Pentacle creates and strengthens the magnetic pull between the practitioner and the desired person. In an existing relationship, this means strengthening the pull that already exists — making the partner more consciously aware of their attraction to the practitioner, more drawn to spend time with them, more genuinely interested in and attentive to them.
Deepening affection: The seal draws affection — the warmth of feeling, the positive emotional orientation, the genuine caring that is the foundation of love. In an existing relationship, deepening affection means increasing the warmth and tenderness between the two people, making the partner feel more genuinely loving toward the practitioner.
Renewing attention: In long-term relationships, partners can sometimes take each other for granted — becoming less attentive, less consciously appreciative of each other. The Third Pentacle draws the partner's attention back toward the practitioner, making them more consciously aware of the practitioner's presence and more genuinely interested in them.
Working the Third Pentacle for an Existing Relationship
For a deepening working with the Third Pentacle in an existing relationship:
- Name your partner and the connection. Acknowledge what already exists — the love, the history, the genuine connection between you. The Third Pentacle deepens what is real; acknowledge the reality of what you are working with.
- State what you seek to deepen. More warmth? Deeper affection? Renewed attention? Greater closeness? Be specific.
- Invoke Monachiel. Ask him to strengthen the pull of love and affection between you and your partner specifically.
- Wear the bracelet consistently and be genuinely present to your partner — the Third Pentacle's magnetic force is most effective when the practitioner is actively engaged with the connection it is deepening.
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New love or established connection — the Third Pentacle deepens both. The pull of affection it creates grows stronger with every encounter, every shared moment, every day it is worn.
