I Practiced Open the Abundance Gate for 30 Days: Gates Wide Open
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BY NICOLE LAU
Why I Started This Experiment
I had a receiving problem. Opportunities would appear, money would be offered, people would try to help and I would deflect, refuse, or find reasons why I could not accept. I would minimize compliments, reject gifts, and feel deeply uncomfortable when prosperity tried to reach me.
I knew intellectually that I was blocking abundance, but I could not seem to stop. My gates were closed, and I did not know how to open them.
That is when I committed to 30 days with Open the Abundance Gate. I wanted to see if I could actually dissolve my receiving blocks and open my gates to prosperity. Here is what happened.
The Protocol
I kept it simple and consistent:
- One 20-minute Open the Abundance Gate session every Sunday evening
- Headphones, quiet space, full intention to open my gates
- Journaled after each session in my Money Manifestation Journal
- Performed Unlock the Gate Ritual on days 1, 10, 20, and 30
- Tracked every receiving experience
- Practiced receiving throughout the week
Week 1: The Awareness Phase (Days 1-7)
Day 1: First Session
I did the Unlock the Gate Ritual first to symbolically open my gates. Then I pressed play on Open the Abundance Gate.
The audio guided me to identify my closed gates. I became acutely aware of how often I blocked receiving. I cried during the session. I had not realized how closed I was, or how much it was costing me.
Days 2-7: Painful Awareness
The first week was about becoming conscious of my receiving blocks:
- Noticing every time I deflected a compliment
- Catching myself refusing help automatically
- Feeling the discomfort when someone tried to give to me
- Recognizing the unworthiness underneath it all
I did not receive much better yet, but I was aware of the problem.
Week 2: The Initial Opening (Days 8-14)
Day 10: Ritual + Audio Combo
On day 10, I did another Unlock the Gate Ritual + Open the Abundance Gate session. This created a powerful opening.
During the audio, I could feel my gates beginning to unlock. The unworthiness that had kept them closed was starting to dissolve.
Days 11-14: First Receiving Shifts
This week, I started receiving differently:
- Day 11: Accepted a compliment with simple thank you, no deflecting
- Day 12: Said yes to help offered instead of automatic refusal
- Day 13: Received a gift without immediately reciprocating or feeling guilty
- Day 14: Accepted an unexpected $200 opportunity without questioning if I deserved it
Small shifts, but significant. My gates were cracking open.
Week 3: The Deep Opening (Days 15-21)
Days 15-17: Blocks Dissolving
By week three, I could feel my core receiving blocks dissolving:
- The unworthiness that said I do not deserve this
- The fear that said receiving is dangerous
- The guilt that said I should not have more
- The control that said I can only receive what I earn
These were not just thoughts changing. The emotional charge behind them was dissolving.
Days 18-21: Gates Opening Wide
This week, receiving became noticeably easier:
- Day 18: Accepted help with a project, saved me 10 hours of work
- Day 19: Received a surprise $500 client bonus gracefully
- Day 20: Said yes to a collaboration opportunity I would have previously refused
- Day 21: Accepted multiple compliments naturally throughout the day
On day 20, I did another Unlock the Gate Ritual + audio session. My gates felt wide open.
Week 4: The Natural Receiving (Days 22-30)
Days 22-28: Receiving as Default
By week four, receiving felt natural and comfortable:
- Accepting compliments without thought
- Saying yes to help automatically
- Receiving gifts with genuine gratitude and no guilt
- Allowing prosperity to reach me easily
This week brought:
- Day 23: Received an unexpected $800 referral fee
- Day 25: Accepted a free resource worth $300
- Day 27: Said yes to a speaking opportunity with a $1,000 fee
- Day 28: Received help, gifts, and opportunities throughout the day, all accepted gracefully
Day 30: Final Ritual + Results
On day 30, I did my final Unlock the Gate Ritual + Open the Abundance Gate session. Not as an ending, but as an anchoring.
Receiving capacity transformation:
- Before: Deflected 80%+ of what was offered, received maybe 20%
- After: Received 80%+ of what was offered, deflected maybe 20%
Tangible results:
- $2,500 in money and opportunities I would have previously refused
- Countless hours saved by accepting help
- Resources, connections, and support I would have deflected
- Natural, comfortable receiving as my new default
What Actually Changed
Internal Shifts
- Unworthiness dissolved: From I do not deserve this to I am worthy of receiving
- Fear transformed: From receiving is dangerous to it is safe to receive
- Guilt released: From I should not have more to I can receive and so can others
- Gates opened: From closed and blocked to open and receptive
External Results
- Receiving capacity: 80%+ acceptance rate vs. 20% before
- Money received: $2,500 in opportunities I would have refused
- Help accepted: Saved countless hours by saying yes to support
- Prosperity flow: Abundance reaching me easily vs. being blocked
The Unexpected Benefits
- Relationships improved: Letting people give to me deepened connections
- Energy increased: Not fighting against receiving freed up massive energy
- Opportunities multiplied: Open gates attracted more to flow through
- Self-worth restored: Receiving reflected back my worthiness
What I Did Right
Consistency
I did not skip my weekly sessions. Even when I felt resistant, I practiced. Weekly consistency created the gate opening momentum.
Ritual Support
The Unlock the Gate Ritual every 10 days created powerful openings that amplified the audio.
Tracking Everything
Journaling every receiving experience in my Money Manifestation Journal helped me see the transformation clearly.
The Challenges
Discomfort with Receiving
The first two weeks, receiving felt deeply uncomfortable. I had to consciously override the urge to deflect or refuse.
Guilt Surfacing
When I started receiving more, guilt surfaced. I had to consciously release it.
Fear of Dependence
Accepting help triggered fear of becoming dependent or weak. I had to reframe receiving as strength, not weakness.
What I Am Doing Now
After the 30-day intensive, I have continued:
- Open the Abundance Gate once per week on Sunday evenings
- Monthly Unlock the Gate Ritual + audio combo at new moon
- Continue practicing receiving daily
My gates have stayed open. Receiving is now natural and comfortable.
Who Should Try This
- Anyone who deflects compliments or refuses help
- People who feel uncomfortable receiving gifts or money
- Those who sabotage when prosperity appears
- Anyone with unworthiness, guilt, or fear around receiving
- People ready to open their gates and allow abundance to flow
Final Thoughts
This 30-day journey with Open the Abundance Gate fundamentally transformed my relationship with worthiness, deservingness, and abundance.
I went from closed gates and constant deflecting to open gates and natural receiving. If you are ready to open your gates, commit to the 30 days. Your open gates are waiting.
