Seven of Swords Journal Prompts: 15 Questions About Honesty & Deception
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BY NICOLE LAU
The Seven of Swords: Journaling as Truth-Seeking
The Seven of Swords is the card of deception, strategy, and cunning. When you journal with this card's energy, you're not writing to feel comfortableβyou're writing to face uncomfortable truths. This is journaling as honest self-examination, as the practice of looking at your own deception, your own dishonesty, your own sneaky behavior without flinching. These questions will be difficult. They should be.
These 15 journal prompts are designed to help you examine your relationship with honesty, understand when and why you deceive, and assess whether you're being deceived. They will ask you to be brutally honest about your own behavior and to trust your instincts about others' dishonesty. Some answers will be painful. That's the point.
Approach these prompts with courage, radical honesty, and the willingness to see yourself clearlyβeven when what you see isn't flattering. The growth you seek is on the other side of the truth you're avoiding.
How to Use These Prompts
Sacred Preparation
Physical Space:
β’ Find a private place where you can be completely honest
β’ Have your journal and pen
β’ Optional: Mirror for self-reflection
β’ This work requires courage
Mental Preparation:
β’ Take 10 deep breaths
β’ Set intention: "I am ready to see the truth about myself and my situation."
β’ Commit to honesty, even when uncomfortable
Energetic Activation:
β’ Say aloud: "I am willing to see where I've been dishonest. I am ready to face the truth. I choose honesty over comfort."
Writing Guidelines
Write the Truth:
Don't write what makes you look good. Write what's actually true.
Don't Defend:
This is not the place to justify dishonesty. This is the place to examine it.
Be Specific:
Name specific situations, people, and actions.
Own It:
Take responsibility for your deception.
The 15 Seven of Swords Journal Prompts
Prompt 1: When I Lie
The Question:
When do I lie? In what situations do I deceive? What triggers my dishonesty?
Why This Matters:
Understanding your patterns of deception is the first step to changing them.
Writing Guidance:
Be honest about:
β’ When you lie
β’ What situations trigger dishonesty
β’ Who you lie to most
β’ What you lie about
β’ Why you choose deception
Integration:
Recognize your patterns. You can't change what you don't acknowledge.
Prompt 2: What I'm Hiding
The Question:
What am I currently hiding? What secrets am I keeping? What truth am I avoiding?
Why This Matters:
Naming what you're hiding brings it into the light.
Writing Guidance:
Write about:
β’ What you're hiding
β’ Who you're hiding it from
β’ Why you're keeping it secret
β’ What you're afraid will happen if truth comes out
Integration:
Ask: "What would happen if I told the truth?" Usually, you can handle it.
Prompt 3: My Justifications
The Question:
How do I justify my deception? What stories do I tell myself to make dishonesty okay?
Why This Matters:
Understanding your justifications helps you see through them.
Writing Guidance:
Explore:
β’ How you rationalize lying
β’ What you tell yourself
β’ How you make it okay
β’ What excuses you use
Integration:
Challenge each justification. Is it actually true?
Prompt 4: Who I'm Deceiving
The Question:
Who am I being dishonest with? Partner? Boss? Friends? Myself?
Why This Matters:
Naming who you deceive reveals the relationships affected by your dishonesty.
Writing Guidance:
List people you're dishonest with and what you're hiding from each.
Integration:
Consider the cost to each relationship. Is the deception worth it?
Prompt 5: When I've Been Deceived
The Question:
When have I been deceived? How did it feel? What did it cost me?
Why This Matters:
Remembering how deception feels helps you choose honesty.
Writing Guidance:
Write about times you were lied to:
β’ How it felt
β’ What it cost you
β’ How it affected trust
β’ What you learned
Integration:
Remember this feeling when tempted to deceive others.
Prompt 6: My Gut Feelings
The Question:
What is my gut telling me about current situations? Who do I suspect is being dishonest?
Why This Matters:
Your intuition knows. Learning to trust it protects you.
Writing Guidance:
Write about:
β’ What feels off
β’ Who you don't trust
β’ What doesn't add up
β’ What your instincts say
Integration:
Trust your gut. It's usually right.
Prompt 7: The Cost of My Deception
The Question:
What has my dishonesty cost me? Relationships? Trust? Self-respect?
Why This Matters:
Understanding the cost helps you choose differently.
Writing Guidance:
Be honest about what deception has cost:
β’ Relationships damaged
β’ Trust broken
β’ Self-respect lost
β’ Opportunities missed
β’ Peace sacrificed
Integration:
Ask: "Is dishonesty worth this cost?"
Prompt 8: What I'm Stealing
The Question:
What am I taking that isn't mine? Credit? Ideas? Time? Trust?
Why This Matters:
The Seven of Swords is about theft. Naming what you're taking is crucial.
Writing Guidance:
Write about:
β’ What you're taking
β’ Who you're taking from
β’ How you justify it
β’ What it's costing
Integration:
Commit to stopping the theft. Make amends if possible.
Prompt 9: My Strategic vs. Deceptive Behavior
The Question:
When am I being strategic vs. deceptive? What's the difference in my behavior?
Why This Matters:
Understanding the line between strategy and deception helps you stay ethical.
Writing Guidance:
Explore:
β’ When strategy is honest
β’ When it crosses into deception
β’ How you know the difference
β’ Where your line is
Integration:
Define your ethical boundaries clearly.
Prompt 10: What Truth I'm Avoiding
The Question:
What truth am I avoiding? What don't I want to face or admit?
Why This Matters:
Avoided truth doesn't disappearβit festers. Facing it is freedom.
Writing Guidance:
Write the truth you're avoiding:
β’ What you don't want to admit
β’ What you're afraid to face
β’ What you know but won't say
β’ What reality you're denying
Integration:
Face the truth. Write it. Say it. Own it.
Prompt 11: My Relationship with Honesty
The Question:
What's my relationship with honesty? Do I value truth? When do I choose it?
Why This Matters:
Understanding your values around honesty shapes your choices.
Writing Guidance:
Reflect on:
β’ How you define honesty
β’ When you choose truth
β’ When you choose deception
β’ What honesty means to you
Integration:
Recommit to honesty as a value.
Prompt 12: Red Flags I'm Ignoring
The Question:
What red flags am I seeing but ignoring? What warning signs am I dismissing?
Why This Matters:
Acknowledging red flags protects you from deception.
Writing Guidance:
List red flags you're seeing:
β’ In relationships
β’ At work
β’ In situations
β’ About people
Integration:
Stop ignoring them. Pay attention. Act on them.
Prompt 13: If I Were Completely Honest
The Question:
If I were completely honest right now, what would I say? What would I do differently?
Why This Matters:
Imagining complete honesty shows you the path forward.
Writing Guidance:
Write: "If I were completely honest..."
β’ What I would say
β’ What I would admit
β’ What I would change
β’ What I would stop
Integration:
Choose one honest action. Take it today.
Prompt 14: My Commitment to Truth
The Question:
What am I committing to around honesty? What will I do differently?
Why This Matters:
Conscious commitment creates change.
Writing Guidance:
Write: "I commit to..."
β’ Being honest about...
β’ Stopping deception in...
β’ Trusting my instincts about...
β’ Choosing truth when...
Integration:
Sign your commitment. Make it real.
Prompt 15: The Truth I Need to Tell
The Question:
What truth do I need to tell? Who needs to hear it? When will I say it?
Why This Matters:
Identifying the truth you need to tell is the first step to telling it.
Writing Guidance:
Write:
β’ What truth needs to be told
β’ Who needs to hear it
β’ Why you haven't said it
β’ When you will
Integration:
Set a date. Tell the truth. Free yourself.
Integration Ritual: Choosing Honesty
The Truth Ceremony
You'll need:
β’ Your journal entries
β’ Mirror
β’ Candle
β’ Courage
The Ceremony:
1. Review
Read all your entries. Face what you've written.
2. Look in Mirror
Say to yourself: "I see you. I see your deception. I see your truth. I choose honesty."
3. Light Candle
Say: "I bring my deception into the light. I choose truth. I commit to honesty."
4. Write Commitment
"I will be honest about... I will stop deceiving... I will tell the truth about..."
5. Sign It
Make it real. Commit.
6. Act
Within 24 hours, take one honest action. Tell one truth. Stop one deception.
Affirmations for Honesty
β’ I choose honesty over comfort
β’ I am brave enough to tell the truth
β’ I trust my instincts about deception
β’ I am honest with myself and others
β’ I face uncomfortable truths
β’ I don't need deception to succeed
β’ I am worthy of relationships built on truth
β’ I choose integrity
Final Thoughts: The Courage to Be Honest
The Seven of Swords asks you to look at the parts of yourself you'd rather not seeβyour deception, your dishonesty, your sneaky behavior. These journal prompts are tools for that honest examination. They help you see your role in deception, understand when you're being deceived, and choose honesty over comfort.
This work is uncomfortable. It should be. Growth happens in discomfort. Change happens when you face truth.
You've been brave enough to look. Now be brave enough to change.
Write the truth. Face your deception. Choose honesty.
One honest word at a time.
As you sit with these probing questions about honesty and deception, remember that the Seven of Swords ultimately invites us to reclaim our integrity rather than condemn our shadowsβa journey beautifully supported by the reflective practice of tarot journaling prompts 100 questions for self discovery. For deeper exploration of these themes within your own story, the shadow work tarot internal locus practice guide offers a gentle map through the hidden corners of the psyche, while 30 day tarot practice workbook provides daily structure for meeting yourself with compassion and clarity. Let each question be a candle held to your own truth, illuminating not what you must hide, but what you are ready to integrate.
